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Yuri

Yuri hadn’t been groomed for a while, and hairs were sticking out of his nostrils. Ismail, his father, playfully pinched a strand, and gave it a sudden jerk. Yuri twitched. Ismail chuckled. Maznah screamed.

“Don’t get mad!”, Ismail said to his wife. “Who knows… maybe if I pluck the right one, he will wake up?”

But Ismail knew better. Yuri will never wake up.

16 years ago, they received a midnight call from the police that still haunts them today – Yuri had fallen into coma from a horrific car accident.

Then, Yuri was only 21. Now 37, he remained largely unconscious. He can’t move, can’t talk, can’t see, can’t feel. Yuri is condemned to the bed for the rest of his life.

Ismail and Maznah never dreamt their life would turn to hell. How was this possible? Yuri was a gift from God! Born crying and helpless, his loving parents hugged him, fed him, touched his face, kissed him. They held his hands as he learnt to walk, spoke with him as he learnt to talk. They gave up their savings for his education, and worked their life for his future. Yuri grew strong and handsome – a young, promising life wrecked by a vicious fate.

No one believed in Yuri anymore. Even the doctor suggested putting Yuri to sleep. But Ismail refused.

“God gives, God takes.”

Hope should have died 16 years ago, but for Yuri’s parents, hope was the only thing that bound them together.

As Yuri lay on his bed, hands crocked, mouth agape, eyes rolled backwards, Maznah leaned close, touched his face, and kissed him. She talked to him and held his hand, just as she would when he was a little child – beautiful, crying, and helpless.

Ismail stood by his wife and never left her side. There is so much sadness within her. Yet, there is warmth. Yuri will always be Yuri, their flesh and blood, a gift from God.

As if fate had a sense of humour, Yuri made a sound, and Maznah laughed in happiness. Ismail laughed too, but he had run out of jokes. In a corner, Ismail cried in silence.
IsmailYuri & family

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People are NOT objects

A few days after her portrait session, I visited this lady in the hospital to send my regards, and to show her the photographs we’ve taken. She looked so happy, but it would be the last time I see her in person.

A few weeks later, she passed on.

The people we photograph are not objects.
They are not lifeless shapes and colours,
they are not things we paste onto a background.

They are living, breathing people, people with feelings.
When we take someone’s photograph,
we are capturing a moment in life,
a proof of existence,
a reminder that she is beautiful.

Treasure every minute, every second of your time with people,
because there is life in front of you,
and life is beautiful.

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Art and Freedom

Just because I can draw, paint and make “artistic” pictures, doesn’t make me an “artist”.

After more than 10 years of making pictures, I have grown to understand that art is not about reaching some level of artistry. It’s about living a life. I didn’t realise that I’ve always been searching for freedom, until now.

It may take a while, but for those who haven’t, I hope you’ll find what life means to you too.

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The Most Beautiful Moments Are Never Planned

I think you’ll agree that this is a nice shot. Most people love it. I have many requests to go to the same tree, and I’m supposed to tell the groom how to swing the bride so they can get this result.

Truth is, I didn’t ask this groom to swing the bride like this. I didn’t predict the gown’s beautiful twirl, nor the dance of shadows of the leaves. None of this was my idea. It just happened.

That’s exactly what makes this photograph so delightful. It was totally spontaneous, totally unplanned. All I remembered was having a really good time with the couple, and suddenly the groom decided to swoop her up. I just happened to be there for the shot.

I could never, ever repeat this shot. Of course I could repeat the location, lighting/composition, and all the shallow stuff… but this bond, this moment of joy – it belongs to these two wonderful people. No one else.

I wish I could tell everyone, that the most beautiful moments are never planned. They will come to us. All we need to do is to believe.

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My Passion Is Not Photography

I find myself inexplicably tongue-tied whenever I’m asked about my “passion in photography”.

To begin with, I don’t exactly feel intensely passionate about photography.

I started taking photographs because it was the most convenient thing available at that time. It was easy to learn, and rather fun to play with. I was given a once-in-a-lifetime professional opportunity by a highly-respected and extremely gifted photographer, and it paid the bills. I was a very lucky man.

Soon, I realized that photography had severe limitations. Photography is amazing for its ability to record what we see into incredibly accurate, sophisticated images. But mine is the stuff of dreams. No matter how I tried to manipulate my images, or use all kinds of tricks and lighting effects, I couldn’t come close enough to the feelings I wanted to express.

Which brought me to painting. And painting was wonderful for me, because it wasn’t about manipulating external props and objects to create an effect. It was the very human experience of expressing my feelings, from the heart and mind, through the hands, directly onto canvas. It’s like kissing a woman, physically, passionately, directly, instead of saying I love you with lollipops and balloons and grand fireworks.

Having said that, I could have expressed myself with music, or literature. Dancing seems a little far-fetched, but who knows?

Photography is a method, along with many others. I’m more interested in expressing my feelings, as truthfully as possible, with the tools available to me.

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